Wednesday, January 13, 2010
It's another new year and here I am again...wondering if I will make any progress in improving myself this year. It seems every year I make a HUGE list of things I want to do, to learn, to work on or to change. And every year I rarely make a dent in my list. I sometimes wonder if I'll ever accomplish everything on my list or if I'll just meander through life, taking things as they come and wishing I could have more control over some of those things. Guess for now, I'll keep thinking about it and trying to work on that list. Maybe by the time I'm the same age as C's grandma T I'll have it all checked off.
Grandma's Scripture lists and individually typed cards that she memorizes when she is walking on her treadmill. She is such a scriptorian.
Thursday, January 07, 2010
Project 365 blog
I have started an additional blog where I am posting my one picture a day project. Check it out here on in the links on the sidebar.
Friday, December 11, 2009
christmas 2009 newsletter
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!
We are doing well considering our crazy circumstances-Kassie and kids in Monticello and Curtis back and forth between Provo and Monticello working and trying to sell our home. We have been abundantly blessed this year and know that God has worked in mysterious and not-so-mysterious ways to help our family. We are ever thankful for wonderful parents,siblings and friends who love and support us through it all.
We are especially thankful for a missionary son and the blessings that come from his service. Jordan is currently in Billings, Montana, braving the frigid temperatures and striving to share the 'warmth' of the Gospel. We look forward to his homecoming in about 5 months. And we still get to talk to him two more times before then. Yay!
Montana is a Jr at Monticello High. He was on the Cross Country team and had a good season, improving his times as the season went on. It was very cool to see him head out the door each day for his practice. It's not easy to run at 7000 ft above sea level. He is thisclose to getting his driver's license, finally. He still misses his friends at AHS but is slowly adjusting to life in a small town.
Ford, on the other hand, has more friends here than he can keep track of. He just jumped into the social scene and took off. He is rarely home before 6 every night and does his best to find things to do with friends after that hour as well. He is a sophomore and was on the JV football team. He loved playing football and loved making an interception when he finally got into a varsity game.
Cambria is in 7th grade, which is in high school in Monticello. She was a bit nervous about going back to public school after homeschooling and nervous about going to high school. But she has made some good friends and is doing very well in school. It was fun to see her name in the local newspaper for being on the honor roll. She is also in band, playing the clarinet, and seems to have some of the Welch talent for music. She was invited to attend an honor band activity where they learned 4 songs in two days and performed them in front on an audience the second day. We love to hear her playing at home, both piano and clarinet.
Hannah is a very social 5th grader at Monticello Elementary. She collects friends! She is doing well in school in spite of needing to do some catching up in math. She enjoys Activity Days and hanging out with her cousins who live down the hill from us. She is playing Jr. Jazz basketball for the first time, but I wouldn't be surprised if it was the last time. Not her favorite thing!
Sadie is in 3rd grade and is a model student. She LOVES school and tries to be the best student she can. She is excelling in reading and math is not the torture she once thought it was. She is also playing Jr. Jazz basketball and made the first 2 points(and only 2 points) in their very first game of the season. She has made several friends and can say with all honesty, "I have way more friends here than I ever had in Provo."
Soren is almost 4 and adjusting to being at home without his sisters all day long. It's been a hard adjustment for him. He has a good friend who happens to be the son of my high school friend/college roommate. He also likes to play with his cousins, or run away from them, depending on the day. Cars still rules his thoughts, but he likes MarioKart as well.
Charles is 9 months old and REALLY working on walking. He has no use for rolling over or crawling, just wants to go straight to walking. I suppose he won't be ruined for life if he does things in the 'wrong' order. He has two teeth and loves food. He is a wonderful child and we are so happy that he joined our family this year.
I am just trying to keep my sanity and things straight as I try to keep up with the kids and all their activities. I miss my Primary calling, miss the kids and the music. I look forward to someday getting to sit through meetings again when Charles goes to Nursery. I have resumed my work as a nail technician, one appt per day, working out of my sister's salon. It's funner when there are other people around. I am so happy to be 'home' again and be near my sisters and my parents. I've longed for this for years and I'm finally here!
Curtis is busy trying to finish up some of the projects in our house. We have listed it and are hoping for a quick sale so he can live with us full time, rather than part time. It has been a hard year for him, being unemployed and underemployed, but both he and I have learned alot. We are thankful for the job he does have but hope to have or create a different one soon. He has kept the road between Monticello and Provo hot!
We wish you all the best in the coming year. It seems like it would be easy to get bitter and frustrated and angry when times are hard, as they are in our country right now. Thanks to our Savior, whose birth we are celebrating, we have found it easy to have hope and even joy and peace in the midst of our trials.
'Peace that surpasseth all understanding' is our wish for all!
Friday, October 16, 2009
So Close to Home....it's a bit scary!
This looks a bit too close to my reality right now, as DH and I consider what to do since yet another job interview has come and gone and someone else was hired. I hope that we do not get to the point of losing everything like the family in the movie. I do know that as long as we work together and trust in Him we will be okay regardless of what else is lost. I'm anxious to see this movie when it opens.
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
Randomness
Just some random photos from the last couple of months...
Loyd's Lake XC race and a 3rd place JV Boys finish. Way to go!!
Sadie’s baptism day, Aug 09.
Monday, September 14, 2009
Thank Heaven!
Last Thursday was my mom's follow-up PET scan after her chemo treatments. And it was.....CLEAR!!!
No radiation is needed. It was the BEST news and we are thrilled for her and we are so thankful to Heavenly Father that the treatments worked and we still have our mom.
No radiation is needed. It was the BEST news and we are thrilled for her and we are so thankful to Heavenly Father that the treatments worked and we still have our mom.
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Happy Half-Birthday!
Thursday, August 27, 2009
What color are you?
Read about this color quiz over on Karla S.'s blog. Thought it sounded interesting.
I am a 7.
7. Violet: Also an old soul. Intense, cerebral, wise, loving, generous, sentimental, and artistic.
I know for sure that the sentimental part fits like a glove, not too sure about any of the rest of it.
Give it a try.
I think I'll go try it with my maiden name.
I am a 7.
7. Violet: Also an old soul. Intense, cerebral, wise, loving, generous, sentimental, and artistic.
I know for sure that the sentimental part fits like a glove, not too sure about any of the rest of it.
Give it a try.
I think I'll go try it with my maiden name.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
What I See Out My Front Window Now and some Thanks!
Things have been changing right and left for us in the last year. We've gone from employed to unemployed to underemployed. We've gone from home-schooling/private-schooling to public schooling. And we've gone from living in the city to living in a small-town.
(OK, I wish I was still homeschooling the kids, but it seemed like the best way for my kids to integrate into the town and get to know the children, so they are in public school this year and are, for the most part, loving it.)
This picture is what I see when I look out my front window today. Those are the Blue Mountains and they are so beautiful to my eyes. I grew up in this house and have watched those mountains for years. I finally learned to see the 'horsehead' on it's side, I've watched rain and snow storms envelope them and make them disappear. I've watched the maples turn scarlet and the aspens turn gold and I'm thrilled that I get to see them every day again and share them with my husband and children. (I've already drug them up the moutain road to look for deer and wild turkey!)
If there are any of my wonderful friends from Utah County reading this, please know how much your help with packing and loading, as well as your loving concern for our family meant to me. I feel so blessed to be able to call you friends, knowing that our friendship won't end even though miles separate us. Our doors will always be open to you and we'd love to have you come visit.
Thanks so much for so many good memories and years in Utah County. I love you all!
p.s. I'm not missing the traffic. at. all.
But I'm going to have to get myself more organized since I can't just run to WalMart everytime I need something!
Thursday, July 30, 2009
July recap!!
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Peyton has an interesting technique-floating on the air! |
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Wednesday, July 08, 2009
The end of an era...
Today we had to do something we knew would come eventually but were hoping it wouldn't come so soon.
We had to put our red heeler, Ginger, to sleep.
We have had her for 9 years and she has been an amazing pet/protector for our family. If you know anything about heelers, you know that they are fiercely protective of their 'people'. She only loved us and wanted to take out anyone she thought was a threat to her family, which was practically every other person on the planet. She has been our doorbell for all those years as well.
She is/was silly and hated thunder and fireworks. So she always managed to get out of the backyard and try to come in the front whenever she felt frightened. Well, this year on the 4th, she got out and we weren't home so she ran to try to get away from all the noise, and this year she didn't come back.
I called the shelter and they had an older dog who had been picked up and was hurt. We went to look and it was her. So we got her out of "jail" and took her to the vet to see about her leg. It was broken and it was not a simple fracture and would have required surgery. She also had lots of arthritis and the vet wasn't sure how well she would heal or what her quality of life would be. Then throw the cost of the surgery on top of all that and we made the heart-breaking decision that it was best for all of us to euthanize her.
I told my DH I never want another pet. I can't handle the emotional pain associated with this and I feel so guilty for having to make this decision for another living creature who depended on us for everything.
I hope she knows how much she added to our lives and how much we loved her. I hope she knows that we did what we thought was best for her and that it was very difficult to let her go.
I hope they have lots of basketballs and tennisballs in heaven for you, Ginger. And that there is someone there who will throw for you.
We miss you already!
Saturday, July 04, 2009

To Be An American
"I do not choose to be a common man. It is my right to be uncommon.
I seek opportunity to develop whatever talents God gave me---not security.
I do not wish to be a kept citizen, humbled and dulled by having the state look after me.
I want to take the caculated risk; to dream and to build, to fail and succeed.
I refuse to barter incentive for a dole.
I prefer the challenges of life to the guaranteed existence; the thrill of fulfillment to the stale calm of utopia.
I will not trade freedom for beneficence nor my dignity for a handout.
I will never cower before an earthly master nor bend to any threat.
It is my heritage to stand erect, proud and unafraid; to think and act myself, enjoy the benefit of my creations and to face the world boldly and say---
"This, with God's help, I have done.'
All this is what it means to be an American."
Dean Alfange,
quoted by Ezra Taft Benson, April 1968 Gen Conf.
Monday, June 29, 2009
More

More by Kenneth Cope
More steady, more sure
More trusted, more pure
Some say it doesn't matter
More trained and more aware
More aim to get me there
I climb this far
You raise the bar
You want my heart
CHORUS
More fierce desire
To stand against the wind
More blazing fire
When dark is closing in
More love-inspired change within
So there's more and more of me to give
More words to learn and know
More etched upon my soul
Some say it doesn't matter
More tried, more true
Less me, and much more You
I stretch this tall
You sound the call
You want my all.
CHORUS
You keep reaching out--You're calling out to me for
More strengthened shoulders
To face the war with sin
More wise and bolder
To save the souls of men
A more faithful soldier to the end
You want more and more of me to give
More and more of me to give
More love, more light,
More purpose, more serve with all my might,
I need more hope, more faith
More patience, each day I pray for more
More and more of me to give
More fire, more zeal
More spirit to know what's real
More courage, more joy
More, more and more of me to give
More grateful, more true
More humble to trust and do
You call, I hear
I'll walk the path that's set in stone
My heart is fixed on getting home
And what on earth could ever matter more?
More and more of me to give
More
I need to keep these words in my mind to remind myself that I'm trying to do more, to desire to do His will until mine matches His. What on earth could matter more?
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Help!
I'm trying to choose a way to paint my kitchen cabinets so I can live with them for a few more years without wanting to scream everytime I see them. They have been white with red knobs for about 10 years and it's time for an update. We were hoping to replace them, but with the job sitch that's not going to happen for a while. (See the above picture for the current kitchen. The plywood in the floor will be covered with an island at some future point as well, as we can afford to purchase the cabinets.)
What I really want to do is paint the lower cabinets either espresso(really dark brown, almost black) or black and do the upper cabs in an oatmeal color with some glazing. I've also thought about adding some trim to the doors, since they are just flat.
I could just repaint them in white and get new hardware, but they get so dang dirty all the time. I am wanting to do something that hides fingerprints and crud a bit better.
What do you think???? Will it look goofy to have our old white appliances in a black/cream kitchen until we can get the stainless ones we are planning on?
**edited to add the stupid blogger won't let me add spaces or indent my paragraphs for easier reading. Stupid blogger!**
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Things are CRRRAZZZZY around here!
Here's what's been happening----Allie (11) was staying in Bluff with Grandma because Grandpa was working in Monticello last week. But on Tuesday, she had gone on the truck with Grandpa for a run. My sis, Karla, called Mom to see how Allie was doing and she said that Mom didn't sound like herself and when she asked her how she was and what she could do for her, Mom said, "Shoot me." Which is not characteristic of my mom. AT ALL! So Karla dropped what she was doing and called Wendy who called the cancer center, and then she drove to Bluff to get Mom. She had to convince her to come to Monticello to the ER, but she was able to get her there. Mom was running a fever and her white blood count was below 500. She ended up staying in the hospital until Sat. morning. They never could get anything to culture out, so it must have been a virus that was making her sick. She had been pumped full of antibiotics, which doesn't help fight a virus, although it may have been helpful for any other 'bugs' that she was exposed to in the hospital. On Thursday the dr. told Mom how sick she had been and how serious it was. He told Mom and Dad that if she had been a couple of hours later in getting to the hospital, she might not have made it, that at that point there would have been nothing they could have done to help her. She thought that was so crazy because she hadn't felt that sick, just like she was getting a cold. But when your immune system is basically non-functional due to chemo, that's serious. There aren't any white blood cells to fight anything off.
None of us realized until that point how important, life or death serious, it is for her to keep away from sick people. I feel so guilty for going down there at the beginning of May with kids who had been getting over colds. It was strange to look at my mom lying there in that hospital bed. My mom, who is always full of energy and going 90 miles an hour and leaving me in the dust. Lying there, with her hair gone and hooked up to heart monitors and IV's, she almost looked fragile. And I didn't like that! My mom has always been the strong, healthy one. It was surreal.
Thankfully, her white count came back up exponentially every day that she was in the hospital and she's doing well now. She called me yesterday and she had her count done again to see if she should even come up this week for chemo and it is high enough that they can go ahead with her treatment. Which is good, so it doesn't throw off her scheduled appointments. This will be treatment #4. After this one, they will run a CT scan again to see if the cancer is shrinking. I'm so anxious to hear that they don't 'see' anything.
Add to this the regular chaos of a house full of children who are BORED because there's nothing to do, Primary responsibilities including ^%&#*$& Cub Scouts, a husband who is now working two jobs so we never see him and you have some idea of why I don't update my blog very often.
In fact, I'm ignoring a crying baby right now because I needed to email a missionary son and thought I'd do a quick post here as well.
OK, back to my regularly scheduled life!
Friday, May 29, 2009
I'm taking it slowly....
I have to confess that painting scares the crud out of me. Why, you ask?
I have no idea.
I have no idea.
I think it's because I might choose the wrong color--ask C about the color I chose for the dining room! We went with the one he chose.
Or because I might make a blasted mess. Um, yeah, that goes without saying.
But I am slowly learning that this is something I CAN do.
So, although I have a long way to go to be as fearless as Rebecca or Melissa or Kimba (who inspire me all the time to want to DO something) , I want to show you my first repainted thrift store find.
I like how it turned out and I love that the black hides the marker.
Maybe some day I'll feel brave enough to put a brush to a wall or use spraypaint.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Hooray!
Today I got the best gift!
I've been waiting for it for about 9 months and 6 weeks.
An unsolicited smile on the sweet face of my littlest guy.
Swoon!!
I swear it makes ALL the sleepless nights WORTHWHILE.
p.s. I will attempt to capture a picture of his sweet smile and post it here.
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Looking Up!
We spent yesterday evening at Aunt Joann’s funeral. What an amazing woman! She had really lived and left a tremendous legacy of compassion and love for her family. She died of Lyme disease so she generously donated her body for Lyme disease research so there was no casket or trip to a cemetery. Just a lovely service to remember her and what she did with her life.
My mom had a couple of really good appointments at the Huntsman Cancer Center and is feeling really optimistic about the treatments and her prognosis.
My aunt Betty also was given some encouraging information from her doctors about her condition.
Sweet baby boy is gaining weight. I can see it in his face and his legs are finally starting to get some chub on them. That's a relief. I think a real smile is just around the corner and I'm anxiously waiting for it.
And finally, I have a new niece, Ane. Born last night, to a mother who thought she'd never have a chance to experience pregnancy and childbirth. Priceless.
Just when things seem to be so dark and hopeless, a little light shines through. Miracles happen.

Tuesday, April 07, 2009
In Need of Hope...
This has been a very hard week for me and my family. It seems that trouble has found us and is loathe to leave. When I was growing up in my very small hometown, it seemed like serious illness and death occurred in groups of 3. (Maybe we're just pattern-noticers or superstitious!)
And it's happened again.
Two people who I love dearly have been diagnosed with that big nasty C-word.
CANCER!!
One is a first diagnosis and hopefully it has been caught soon enough to take care of. The other is someone who has fought this battle before, and it's come back again. This time it looks like it might be the last fight.
Then we received word that Aunt Joann passed away last night after a long fight with Lyme disease. It was so painful watching a lovely, vibrant woman wither away. As always, I feel so thankful that she is released from the pain and physical suffering she endured, but I ache for her children and for Uncle Keith. This is the second wife he has attended through a long illness and death.
I'm finding it really hard right now to have a happy countenance or a cheerful outlook. I can only imagine how I would be feeling if I did not have the knowledge of the restored Gospel of Jesus Christ to give me hope. I can see how things like this would make life seem truly hopeless. I know that He is aware of all that we go through and can succor us in our times of need, and that through His love I will be able to feel hope and peace again and put on a smile for my family.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
A LITTLE something to worry about! (You'd think I'd never fed a baby before...)
Last week I took the little guy in for his 2 week checkup. I even pondered, for a minute, not going to it, since this is child #8. But I decided that it was okay to go have him checked out.
Well, it turns out that he is not gaining weight.
Really not gaining weight.
Losing it, in fact.
He was down 1 lb and 3 oz from his birth weight.
Dr. is concerned and wants to see him again this week and so
my only job from now until then is to fatten this little guy up.
Read: I am the milk-cow.
I've resorted to pumping in between feedings to have
Read: I am the milk-cow.
I've resorted to pumping in between feedings to have
a little extra milk to let others feed to him and
using some Fenugreek to try to up the supply.
I think it's doing some good, he seems less sleepy and
using some Fenugreek to try to up the supply.
I think it's doing some good, he seems less sleepy and
is eating more vigorously than he was last week.
Hopefully it will all have been worthwhile and
the little guy will be a little less little at weigh-in.
Keep your fingers crossed for us.
the little guy will be a little less little at weigh-in.
Keep your fingers crossed for us.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
I Feel So Much Better!
He arrived on Sunday morning at 5 a.m. He weighed in at 8 lb 7 oz, and is 19 inches long. He is a lovely baby, quite calm and alert. He has figured out the nursing thing quickly and even takes a pacifier.
We are loving every minute with him and I often have to resort to the "I'm the mother" card so I can get a turn holding him.
It was a simple, uncomplicated birth and I feel great. I'm tired, which is to be expected.
Fun fact: He did have a knot tied in his cord. I've got the makings of a Scout on my hands, I guess.
Saturday, March 07, 2009
Hooray!! It's Here!
I had almost given up hope that it would ever arrive......
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Gotcha!
Nope, not the baby, just my Project 365 Kit from Becky Higgins. I ordered it on Jan 1 and so did a zillion other people. They ran out of what they had in the warehouse, and so mine was backordered. It was supposed to show in Feb, but didn't and so I thought that I just wasn't going to get one. Then I got an email on Thurs that it had come in by slow boat from China and was ready to ship out to me. It came today by FedEx. It's a really cool concept for capturing a year of life, one picture a day. I've been diligently taking my pictures, now I just need to print them and put them in the right slots and keep going for the rest of the year.
I'll post a picture when I have some of the pictures in.
Maybe the baby will show up today, too. I've been having contractions just not regular enough to head to the hospital yet.
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Gotcha!
Nope, not the baby, just my Project 365 Kit from Becky Higgins. I ordered it on Jan 1 and so did a zillion other people. They ran out of what they had in the warehouse, and so mine was backordered. It was supposed to show in Feb, but didn't and so I thought that I just wasn't going to get one. Then I got an email on Thurs that it had come in by slow boat from China and was ready to ship out to me. It came today by FedEx. It's a really cool concept for capturing a year of life, one picture a day. I've been diligently taking my pictures, now I just need to print them and put them in the right slots and keep going for the rest of the year.
I'll post a picture when I have some of the pictures in.
Maybe the baby will show up today, too. I've been having contractions just not regular enough to head to the hospital yet.
Monday, March 02, 2009
Ugh!!
Well, another visit to the dr today. Went from a 1 last week to a 2 this week. I told him that at this rate the baby won't be born for 8 more weeks. He did offer to come break my water if I took myself to the hospital......
Actually, I think Baby is afraid to come to this house. We can't seem to get rid of the sickies. I have one with a sore throat yesterday and today and two with congestion, runny nose and runny eyes. Somehow I need to get them well before this baby can come out to play.
Actually, I think Baby is afraid to come to this house. We can't seem to get rid of the sickies. I have one with a sore throat yesterday and today and two with congestion, runny nose and runny eyes. Somehow I need to get them well before this baby can come out to play.
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Still Here!

Here's a pic of me and my little sis, showing our lovely matching bellies. Yes, I'm sure mine would be bigger even if I was due after her. I'm just a 'bigger' person. Aren't we cute??
Baby still hasn't made his appearance. I guess he knows that we've had a lot of 'bugs' running around this house and he isn't interested in catching any of them.
I actually have to fill in for my Primary music leader tomorrow, so I guess it will be good if he waits til that is done.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Countdown is on!!
Well, the two week countdown is on.
We are now in the time frame when this little guy could make his appearance. So EXCITED!!
I have never made it to a due date yet. I have always gone early. I know, I know, that's not fair.
I have gone anywhere from 2 wks to 1 day early. So I'm anxiously watching for labor signs.
I'm R E A D Y. (I think.)
The thing that's making it more fun than usual is that I'm basically in a race with my youngest sister. Who is not due until April. But thinks she needs to win the race, so she's having some pre-term contractions and is residing in Provo until her baby gets here.
Maybe we can be hospital mates this time. That could be fun!!
We are now in the time frame when this little guy could make his appearance. So EXCITED!!
I have never made it to a due date yet. I have always gone early. I know, I know, that's not fair.
I have gone anywhere from 2 wks to 1 day early. So I'm anxiously watching for labor signs.
I'm R E A D Y. (I think.)
The thing that's making it more fun than usual is that I'm basically in a race with my youngest sister. Who is not due until April. But thinks she needs to win the race, so she's having some pre-term contractions and is residing in Provo until her baby gets here.
Maybe we can be hospital mates this time. That could be fun!!
Friday, February 13, 2009
I've been tagged! (this is a first)
My friend, texasblu, tagged me recently. And this tag is not one of those easy, 21 strange things about me, kinds of tags. This one makes me have to think!! Imagine that. I don't suppose I have 5 people to tag, but if there is anyone out there who happens upon this blog, consider yourself tagged.
List at least five things you do to support and spread a love of the written word, then tag five people. (If you list something that touches youngsters, you get a bonus letter!)
1. I take my kids to the library. REGULARLY!! At any given time, we have nearly 100+ books checked out. Lots for homeschool, but lots that the kids check out just for personal reading time.
2. I have always read to my children, especially when they are younger. I think it instills in them a love of reading and being read to. So far my theory is correct. Six of my seven children LOVE to read, the others are too small to read on their own.
3. I have always thought that I would like to be a literacy volunteer and help illiterate adults to read. I simply can't imagine life without reading. While I have yet to do that, I have realized that by homeschooling I am getting my training in. I still plan to volunteer to help with that at some future time, when my kids are more grown and I have the time.
4. I also blog. It's my computerized journal. I will at infrequent intervals copy and paste the posts into my Word Doc journal and at some point I will print them and place them in a binder for future generations. This reminds me that I haven't done the copy/paste routine in a while and need to.
5. We have shelves of books all over our house. I have one in my bedroom, my DH has his own in our room. We have two absolutely overflowing ones in the family room. We have a school related one in the dining room where we do our 'studying' and we have a basket for the library books there as well. Soren has his own box of books near his bed that he can choose a night time story or nap time story from.
Books are just part of our family culture. We can't imagine our home with out reading materials scattered everywhere. If you look into each of the bedrooms in our house you will find stacks of books near the beds. Sometimes it feels as if the books are taking over.
Thursday, February 05, 2009
False Alarm!!
It was all a false alarm. I misunderstood what antibody the dr. said I tested positive for....it was a random antibody that he didn't even know what was.
When he spoke to the lab about it and asked what the implications were, he was told by the nice Indian(from India) tech that it was "not clinically relevant". So he asked why they test for that antibody and he was told "because we can" (rolling eyes here, that's the excuse my kids use all the time).
So there is nothing to worry about with this pregnancy or any other. Whew!!
When he spoke to the lab about it and asked what the implications were, he was told by the nice Indian(from India) tech that it was "not clinically relevant". So he asked why they test for that antibody and he was told "because we can" (rolling eyes here, that's the excuse my kids use all the time).
So there is nothing to worry about with this pregnancy or any other. Whew!!
Friday, January 30, 2009
My new toy!
My sweet and generous mom came to town this week and left this fun little gadget in my care.
It's a Bernina Artista 630.
This thing has bells and whistles.
I've got lots of reading and fiddling to do to figure it all out, but I'm so excited to have a good sewing machine with embroidery capabilities. Hopefully, I'll have some fun projects to talk about in the near future!
THANKS, MOM!
Thursday, January 22, 2009
My Miracle failed this Time!
Just got back from my 33 wk dr. appt and he told me that I had tested positive on the antibody screen. I just looked at him, in my mind asking myself, "Is he saying what I think he's saying?"
He looked at me and asked if I'd ever tested positive before and I said, 'I don't think so because I have no idea what you're talking about." But he was saying what I thought he was saying and I did have a little idea of what he was talking about.
So the deal is that somehow, even though I've had my RhoGam every time I've been pregnant,
(every. single. time.)
I have become sensitized to RH+ blood.
I've had that injection 18 times and it's worked until now.
What in the world does that mean? I have some idea but I'm doing lots of reading on the internet and waiting for him to get back to me following his speaking to the perinatologist at Maternal Fetal Medicine.
I'm wondering if it's my little hint that it's okay to be done with bearing children......
He looked at me and asked if I'd ever tested positive before and I said, 'I don't think so because I have no idea what you're talking about." But he was saying what I thought he was saying and I did have a little idea of what he was talking about.
So the deal is that somehow, even though I've had my RhoGam every time I've been pregnant,
(every. single. time.)
I have become sensitized to RH+ blood.
I've had that injection 18 times and it's worked until now.
What in the world does that mean? I have some idea but I'm doing lots of reading on the internet and waiting for him to get back to me following his speaking to the perinatologist at Maternal Fetal Medicine.
I'm wondering if it's my little hint that it's okay to be done with bearing children......
Monday, December 29, 2008
Holly, Jolly Christmas!
Since I consider this my 'journal' I suppose I ought to write down how Christmas went. Typical of my life, nothing went according to plan. I suppose I ought to be used to that now, but I still try to have a loose plan and get a bit flustrated when my plan is overridden.
December was an incredibly hectic month for me personally. Between all the kids activities for school and music, I was also in the midst of making changes and plans for our ward Primary for next year. This is my first change of year as Primary President and I'm sure I'm complicating it more than it needs to be, but it feels like the right time to make some changes. I then also threw in on top of all that a Primary Quarterly Activity, since we hadn't done one yet as a presidency and dental checkups in my hometown!
We muddled through all the school and music and Primary stuff and headed off to the sunny south! Yeah, right! We had a big storm the day we were at the dentist and headed home on iffy roads the next day. As we drove north, things seemed to get better, until we hit that lovely road between Green River and Price. It's 60 miles of nothing...sagebrush doesn't even grow there. As we were driving I started hearing this very loud, whining sound over the radio. I wondered if it was our car and turned off the radio. It was very loud and as I started to slow, so did the whining sound. Oh, GREAT!! I pulled over and tried to call my husband,(thanks to my dad for sending me off with his cell phone as mine was not functional) and couldn't get hold of him. I then called my sister in Price and asked her to try to call my hubby and give him Dad's cell phone number. I thought maybe he wasn't answering because he didn't recognize the number. He finally called me back and we set a plan in motion for him to come get me, the kids and the car.
I'm so thankful that my sister lived so close, we were a half hour from her, so she sent her son to pick us up and take us to her house. They also arranged for a friend to go out with a towtruck to retrieve my car. Hubby finally located an auto trailer and, thanks to his BIL, a vehicle to pull it and carry all of us. He made it there pretty late and we decided not to chance the icy roads through the canyon and so we stayed over and drove home on the 24th.
Needless to say, that changed a few of our plans. I didn't have a chance to finish all the shopping, but the kids were really understanding and didn't complain. We spent a quiet Christmas day at home with our kids. Hubby's parent's showed up at 8:30 in the morning and it was their knock that woke us up! We stayed in our p.j.'s all day and ate way too much junk and played with new games, puzzles and toys, but the highlight of the day was getting to talk to our missionary son.
He called at about 1 p.m. and we got 40 minutes to hear his voice. He didn't have much to say. We had put the phone on speaker and I think he was actually overwhelmed at the noise and chaos of our home. He must have forgotten how crazy it can get. I am so thankful that he is being watched over and taken care of. He has had many interesting experiences that have helped his own testimony grow. I'm so pleased at the efforts he makes each day to share the beautiful message of the gospel of Christ. I know it's not easy to wake up each day and go out to talk to people who don't really want to talk to you, but he does it and we 'see' the changes and blessings that it is bringing to his life.
Looking back at this Christmas season, I feel so blessed that as crazy as things were we were still blessed beyond measure. "Things" lost alot of their appeal as we saw so many people exhibit the true spirit of Christmas to help us out. We may not be able to repay all who helped us, but we can 'pay it forward' and seek to serve and help bless the lives of others as we see and become aware of needs. That's the true spirit of Christmas, and it's good all year long!
December was an incredibly hectic month for me personally. Between all the kids activities for school and music, I was also in the midst of making changes and plans for our ward Primary for next year. This is my first change of year as Primary President and I'm sure I'm complicating it more than it needs to be, but it feels like the right time to make some changes. I then also threw in on top of all that a Primary Quarterly Activity, since we hadn't done one yet as a presidency and dental checkups in my hometown!
We muddled through all the school and music and Primary stuff and headed off to the sunny south! Yeah, right! We had a big storm the day we were at the dentist and headed home on iffy roads the next day. As we drove north, things seemed to get better, until we hit that lovely road between Green River and Price. It's 60 miles of nothing...sagebrush doesn't even grow there. As we were driving I started hearing this very loud, whining sound over the radio. I wondered if it was our car and turned off the radio. It was very loud and as I started to slow, so did the whining sound. Oh, GREAT!! I pulled over and tried to call my husband,(thanks to my dad for sending me off with his cell phone as mine was not functional) and couldn't get hold of him. I then called my sister in Price and asked her to try to call my hubby and give him Dad's cell phone number. I thought maybe he wasn't answering because he didn't recognize the number. He finally called me back and we set a plan in motion for him to come get me, the kids and the car.
I'm so thankful that my sister lived so close, we were a half hour from her, so she sent her son to pick us up and take us to her house. They also arranged for a friend to go out with a towtruck to retrieve my car. Hubby finally located an auto trailer and, thanks to his BIL, a vehicle to pull it and carry all of us. He made it there pretty late and we decided not to chance the icy roads through the canyon and so we stayed over and drove home on the 24th.
Needless to say, that changed a few of our plans. I didn't have a chance to finish all the shopping, but the kids were really understanding and didn't complain. We spent a quiet Christmas day at home with our kids. Hubby's parent's showed up at 8:30 in the morning and it was their knock that woke us up! We stayed in our p.j.'s all day and ate way too much junk and played with new games, puzzles and toys, but the highlight of the day was getting to talk to our missionary son.
He called at about 1 p.m. and we got 40 minutes to hear his voice. He didn't have much to say. We had put the phone on speaker and I think he was actually overwhelmed at the noise and chaos of our home. He must have forgotten how crazy it can get. I am so thankful that he is being watched over and taken care of. He has had many interesting experiences that have helped his own testimony grow. I'm so pleased at the efforts he makes each day to share the beautiful message of the gospel of Christ. I know it's not easy to wake up each day and go out to talk to people who don't really want to talk to you, but he does it and we 'see' the changes and blessings that it is bringing to his life.
Looking back at this Christmas season, I feel so blessed that as crazy as things were we were still blessed beyond measure. "Things" lost alot of their appeal as we saw so many people exhibit the true spirit of Christmas to help us out. We may not be able to repay all who helped us, but we can 'pay it forward' and seek to serve and help bless the lives of others as we see and become aware of needs. That's the true spirit of Christmas, and it's good all year long!
Saturday, December 27, 2008
My Modern Medical Miracle
Yesterday was the day for my friendly, 28 week rhogam shot. If you know much about me, you know I don't like, REALLY DON'T LIKE, needles. Unless I'm sewing, then that's a whole 'nother story. But I have to tell you that Rhogam is my friend. And because I love it and am so thankful for it, I am willing to put up with a needle to get it.
If you don't know what Rhogam is, it helps any woman with Rh- blood not build up antibodies to +blood that the baby she is carrying may have. Because I have O- blood and married a man with B+ blood we have an incompatibility there. If the baby we conceive should have +blood, my body would see that as an invasion and start making antibodies to fight it off. Then, any following children would be attacked by my antibodies and need to have transfusions and there is the possibility of fetal death. It's not a nice thing, and until the last few decades, there was no way to stop it. Then some smart person developed Rhogam, which prevents those antibodies from being made. It's a medical miracle and because of it I have the large family that I have.
When I got to the lab yesterday, they couldn't find my injection. I was dreading the thought of having to have the blood drawn again and the wait to have the injection, but thankfully, they were able to locate it in a different part of the hospital. Whew!!
Now, considering that you get to have one of these at 28 weeks with every pregnancy, after every birth of a +blood-type child and after every miscarriage....you can calculate that I've had a few of these. I have a stack of cards in my purse that tells the tale.
But.....every last needle stick is worth it! My undying gratitude goes out to whoever it was that figured out what the problem was and how to fix it. My DH and I, and all of our almost 8 kids are so thankful!!
If you don't know what Rhogam is, it helps any woman with Rh- blood not build up antibodies to +blood that the baby she is carrying may have. Because I have O- blood and married a man with B+ blood we have an incompatibility there. If the baby we conceive should have +blood, my body would see that as an invasion and start making antibodies to fight it off. Then, any following children would be attacked by my antibodies and need to have transfusions and there is the possibility of fetal death. It's not a nice thing, and until the last few decades, there was no way to stop it. Then some smart person developed Rhogam, which prevents those antibodies from being made. It's a medical miracle and because of it I have the large family that I have.
When I got to the lab yesterday, they couldn't find my injection. I was dreading the thought of having to have the blood drawn again and the wait to have the injection, but thankfully, they were able to locate it in a different part of the hospital. Whew!!
Now, considering that you get to have one of these at 28 weeks with every pregnancy, after every birth of a +blood-type child and after every miscarriage....you can calculate that I've had a few of these. I have a stack of cards in my purse that tells the tale.
But.....every last needle stick is worth it! My undying gratitude goes out to whoever it was that figured out what the problem was and how to fix it. My DH and I, and all of our almost 8 kids are so thankful!!
Monday, December 15, 2008
Welch Family Newsletter, 2008 Edition
Trying to do a 'green' newsletter this year. Instead of including it with our Christmas card and picture, I'm typing it here and sending the blog address in our cards. That way we can save a few trees!
Welcome to the 2008 Edition of the yearly events in the Curtis Welch household. We'll start youngest first~~
Soren-turned 2 in Jan, and his true 'boy' colors really began to emerge. He is fascinated and obsessed with anything related to "Cars", the movie. He has most of the characters from the movie and loves to play with them. It is so fun to listen to him as he plays with his cars, making them interact and have conversations. He speaks very well for a 2 year old and we can't remember what it was like to not hear his funny little comments and observations. He has a couple of 'friends' from Nursery that he talks about a lot, but he is fortunate to have his sisters home all day to play with. He is becoming very proficient at dressing and undressing himself and putting on his own coat. He has little need for his mom anymore, except to change a diaper now and then and fill up his milk cup.
Sadie-turned 7 in July. She has spent the better part of the year with gaps in her smile, trying her best to raise money by losing teeth. Unfortunately, we still have a very lame tooth fairy who is very sporadic in her visits. We keep hoping she will retire and be replaced by a better one. Sadie is a very capable helper for her mom when she wants to be. She is learning to make some food items and often helps get lunch for us. She has learned to love to read, setting her goals for the Pizza Hut Book-It reading rewards. She has also developed a real love of drawing and most days you can find her with her sketchbook and pencil in hand. She is looking forward to being baptized in the coming year.
Hannah-turned 9 in July. She also still has gaps in her smile. In fact, some of those gaps have been there so long we are wondering if the lame-o tooth fairy accidentally took the permanant teeth along with the baby teeth. Hannah loves to read and draw as well and will consent to do math and science if Mom will work with her. She has had some fun with our study of American History this year and you can check some of our other blog entries to see pictures of what the girls have been working on. She started taking piano lessons in Oct and has loved it. She likes her teacher and likes to sit and practice and play for fun. Mom rarely needs to remind her. She participated in her first recital on Dec 13 and did a very good job, although as she said, "I was shaking!" She is excited to be double digits next year.
Cambria-our first baby girl turned 12 in Sept. That was an exciting day for her and a bittersweet one for me. She enjoys being out of Primary and being part of YW. She has learned to crochet and has made several items. She loves to do paper crafts and makes scrapbook pages as well as other projects to give away. She really likes to cook and create in the kitchen, the Food Network is her favorite channel and her favorite celebs are the hosts of the cooking shows. I am trying to encourage her in this area, as I am happy to give up the title of cook in this house. She also started taking piano lessons, again, in Oct. She has really progressed and finally! likes to sit and play. It is so fun to me to hear her sit and work out a new piece of music. She did a fantastic job in her first recital on Dec 13, playing her piece from memory.
Ford-this boy has really had a growth spurt this past year. He has been measuring himself to his mom all year, anxious to pass her up. It finally happened, but he still tries to measure against me to rub it in! He was able to act in the school's rendition of Much Ado About Nothing this year. He was hesitant to audition but did a good job. He and I were then able to attend the Shakespeare Festival in Cedar City in June with several of his classmates. It was good to have that experience together. He was happy to turn 14 and move into the Teacher's quorum at church. He is quite diligent in performing his duties, making sure that the sacrament is ready each Sunday. He is playing basketball again this fall for AHS. He played last winter and they struggled, being a very young and inexperienced team. They have done better this year and he is enjoying it. Ford had the opportunity to attend two Scout camps this year as well as Youth Conference for the first time.
Montana-Another boy who has had a growth spurt. He is now a young man. He turned 16 in Aug. He has yet to do many of those things that most 16 year old boys consider important. Since he attends a private school there is no Driver's Ed offered and we have not been able to enroll him in a private Driving school yet. He is really okay with that, as he mentions often that he wonders if he is ready for the responsibility of a driver's license. He worries that he might injure someone. He has not been on an official date either, but his classmates have had some birthday and holiday parties he has attended and he enjoys interacting with girls on that level. He is also playing basketball again this year. He is a very good defensive player and is pleased when he can 'stuff' someone. Still working toward that Eagle, we hope he won't wait til the last minute. He attended Youth Conference and was glad to get home and clean up!
Jordan-As most of you know, he received his mission call on Valentine's Day, being called to the Montana Billings mission. He entered the MTC in May and then went to Montana in June. He really enjoyed his time in the MTC and has had, for the most part, a good experience so far in Montana. We love hearing from him and 'seeing' his growth in all ways, spiritually and physically. He has had good companions who have taught him well and he has enjoyed meeting people, member and nonmember alike. He has found several people who know his relatives, both on Dad's and Mom's side, and he is desiring to learn more about his family history so he can understand all the connections he is finding there. We checked the temps in Montana this morning and it was
-16 where he is currently. Wow! I hope he has enough warm clothing.
He would love to hear from anyone who felt like writing to him. You can email me for his address.
Kassie-It's been an interesting year for me. I have learned to love the homeschooling life we've chosen. I have loved the closer relationships I feel with my girls. I still have my bad moments, but I feel like I've learned to be more patient with them and with all the kids. I think it has softened me. I was the Primary Chorister until July when they got desperate and I was called to be the Primary President. I have learned and am still learning alot. I enjoy my calling and I love the children in our ward. We don't have a big Primary so it's easy to know all the names and faces and love them. I am thankful for great counselors who definitely help shoulder the load. I will be even more grateful for them in March. In case you didn't know, that is when baby #8 will join our family. I'm sure my counselors will help keep things running in Primary until I can function again. We are so excited about having this new little boy join our family. I never thought for an instant I'd have 8 children, or that I'd still have having children when my oldest was on a mission, but thankfully perspectives can be changed. I am blessed with amazingly good health and easy pregnancies. So far my worst complaints would be tiredness and heartburn. I'd be tired anyway and Tums work well for me. We'll let you know when he makes his appearance.
Curtis-An interesting year for him. As the year has progressed and the economy has changed so has his job description. As of now, there is no more surveying to be done. He works around here now, no more traveling, doing maintenance and handyman type jobs. He has done a considerable amount of work on our addition this year, you can check past blog entries to see some of what we've gotten done. He has had the opportunity to take an extension course through GWU this fall. It has been a real experience for him that I can't begin to tell you about, but you can ask him about it. He will be taking another one beginning in Feb. He was released as Scoutmaster after 2 years in that position and is now the Scout Advancement person. He is in charge of keeping track of all the Scouts in the ward and keeping them updated on where they are and what they could/should be working on. After 7 years, he no longer 'gets' to attend Mutual. This has allowed him to take his college class.
We have had a good year, no big vacations to report, but no major illnesses or injuries either. Every day we see the hand of the Lord in our lives for which we are most grateful. We feel so blessed to have a son worthy and willing to serve a mission and are thrilled to add another child to those still at home. We also feel very blessed to be part of the families we belong to and are thankful for them and for the good friends we have as well. Most of all, we are thankful for our knowledge of the gospel of Christ. We are grateful for living prophets and for Father's direction in our lives.
We pray that each of us will ponder on the meaning of the birth of our Savior and the great gift that that was, but that we will ponder more on the gift he GAVE. For us. That is truly what makes Christmas what it is. Without his life, ministry and atonement, Christmas would just be another day. We wish you joy and peace in this season as well as in the year to come.


Tuesday, December 09, 2008
GGRRRRRRRR.........een grass!
This is what I got to deal with last weekend...3 or 4 grass-stained white dress shirts.
Why, you ask??
Because I have a 14 year old who absolutely cannot stay on his feet when he is playing football during lunch recess at school. I believe a feather could knock this kid over.
Normally he doesn't wear a dress shirt every day, but both of my boys auditioned for and were selected to be in a special choir that performed last week with Micheal Ballam at the school. It was a pretty big deal, and they had rehearsals, hence the dress shirts every day. Thankfully, the 16 year old manages to keep his clean.
*Note to self: teach the 14 year old how to put it on the stains properly so I don't have to rewash the shirts.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Just Random Thoughts and Pics to Share
Just a few pictures from Halloween. If you know me, you know I have an intense 'dislike' for Halloween. Therefore I do not go all out for it and I'm happy(?) to note that my attitude seems to be rubbing off on the kids. All but the youngest two decided not to dress up and go trick-or-treating. (14 year old changed his mind at the last minute and went out with friends). But we confined our celebrating to carving pumpkins, answering the door to trick-or-treaters, and eating the leftover candy--trick-or-treaters were gone by 7:30. We made jack-o-lantern pizzas and watched a movie as well. We did dress up the Soren and Sadie and let them go up one side of our street and down the other.
Can't figure out why the girls laid out the plastic and then carved the pumpkins on the concrete anyway. What was the point?
Pregnancy front: Just did the glucose screen last week. Haven't heard back yet, but don't anticipate any problems. I did get a call that my iron was low, so back on iron pills I go. Ick!! I've only had problems with this in these last two pregnancies. Wonder if it's because I'm so "old"?
Mission front: Doing well, from what we hear. Still busy working in several small towns. Has one really good investigator family they are working with. Hopefully, that will lead to some baptisms. He loves that he is within the two hour radius of the temple in Billings so that he can attend the temple once in a while. He was able to go last week. He said it's getting cold, and snow has been seen. Hope he's warm enough. I need to get some Christmas things together for him.
So excited for Thanksgiving. It is my favorite holiday!! Interesting that it follows on the heels of my least favorite...Hmmmm. Looking forward to time with family and lots of yummy food.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Inquiry Fun!!
An Amazing Woman!
We have just finished up another 'topic' in our American History study.
We have spent the last couple of weeks learning about Abigail Adams. I have come to really admire and appreciate this wonderful woman. I think she was a unique woman with experiences and talents that were crucial to her mission. I also loved the wonderful love story between her and John. They were so good for each other. She kept him down-to-earth and he helped her to reach her potential.
We had the wonderful opportunity to have her come to 'visit' us. She came one morning to introduce herself to us and told us many of her experiences and life history. We learned a lot about her at the 'tea' we had and became very excited to learn more.
After 'Abigail' left we also had a visit from the Yankee Peddler. He brought around his box of items for sale and the girls each got out the 'shillings' they had earned and carefully made their purchases. It was interesting to watch them try to buy everything in the box and spend all their money, then think about it a bit more and put most things back. Cambria only bought her wooden spoon and is saving her shillings to buy a marble set. Hannah bought only the big marble and is saving to buy the rest. Sadie wanted to spend all her money, but in the end bought a wooden spoon and a pair of folding scissors. I was happy to see them be more conscientious consumers. Soren bought himself a little wooden truck toy.
We learned that she was 'homeschooled' too, because her health was not good. She loved to listen, read and think and write.
Some of the favorite 'inquiries' done by the girls were:
learning a colonial dance called "Gathering Peascods" peascods is another term for peapods.
designing and illustrating a dress for her to wear to John's inauguration in 1797
draw a portrait of Abigail from a real picture of her
Research and record what kinds of chores Abigail did and what kinds of activities filled her time.
Play charades, using the list made of chores and activities
Research what pewter is made of and how it's made
Research and calculate how old she was when John signed the Declaration of Independence
Research foods eaten during that time and prepare one--Indian pudding, made of cornmeal, molasses, eggs, cinnamon, ginger, milk. (Note: the girls think molasses is awful smelling!)
They Set Me Free!



They were able to get a good look at the heart and the aorta and the pulmonary artery. Everything looked just like it should. They measured the main measuring points again and I'm measuring exactly right for dates. No changes to the due date! Rats! I was hoping they'd move it up. They told me that by the measurements the baby is about 10 inches long and weighs about 1 lb and 3 oz.
But the best part was when the dr. said, "I see no compelling reason why you should need to see us again." HOORAY!!
p.s. Much to my Sadie’s chagrin, it's still a BOY! She was really hoping it would have changed. Silly girl.
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